Should I leave him. Is he not a man?

Why are you calling him an idiot and a jerk if you like him. Are you an abusive person? I don't think anything is unusual about him. Are you mad that he doesn't have money in the bank because you want his money? Why would you care. And so what if he lives with his parents until he finishes school & gets a decent job in his field. And so what is he enjoys playing video games & walking his dogs in his spare time. He works out & tries to stay healthy. He sounds like an okay guy. I don't really know what your problem is. You sound a little uppity to me. (stuck up!) I think you could have the potential to become an abuser. You are at the least-emotionally abusive. Calling him an idiot and a jerk for ridiculous reasons. Check yourself before you judge someone else. I rarely get rude with anyone on yahoo answers, but you are just a mean shallow woman. Goodluck! I hope he finds someone better than you.