Do you have extreme feelings when interacting with your opposite sign?

I have feeling that me and my Scorpio friends understand each other perfectly and have a nice time together OR I feel hurt, moody and very sad when they are harsh with me or are behaving aloof and when I feel a wall between me and them and I start to doubt if they do care. No matter of I feel to these extreme sides I like them and respect them very much all the time and I would be loyal no matter of what. The way they are with me is like sometimes I have feeling I piss them off because maybe sometimes I am so stubborn or I do not know that what I am saying might provoke some mood changes in them but again the next time we are like nothing happened and they are even nice to me after they been harsh for example. Does that happen between all the opposite signs, do you get well with your oposite sign? I think Scorpio and Taurus get along pretty well even though we are opposite.